Sunday, 20 January 2019

1 SIMPLE STEP TO MORE POSITIVITY IN 2019



We all know it. We all feel it. There are multiple points in the year where everything just seems to be going wrong and life just seems to constantly be shit to you.

Many people try loads of different 'Moments of Gratefulness' projects throughout the year, but as much as I find them intriguing, I just don't feel like they work for me because I just can't pull through with them. It's a great idea though. Finding something to be grateful for every day can in fact make you take the things and people in your life a lot less for granted. So if that works for you, keep doing it. If you want to start doing it, start doing it. You can try adding my tip on top of that, or do it completely on its own, or not at all. No one's forcing you to in the end. This is just what I have found to be working better for me.

Inspired by that, a random thought popped into my mind as I started setting up my brand new bullet journal for the following year or two. Having had a year that equaled more sort of a rollercoaster ride than a straight-forward timeline to the future, I often felt myself thinking it was a completely terrible year, and there was barely anything positive about it. When in fact, that just wasn't true. There are plenty of wonderful moments in the year, we just seem to tend to often mainly focus on the bad when looking back after having had a rough year.

This year, whilst focusing on wanting to make this year a hell of a lot better in general than the last one, particularly on a mental note, I have come up with an idea to become a hell of a lot more positive about every-day life in 2019, and the good things that happen to us on a daily-basis.


So here's my idea, if you want to try it..

Every day before you go to bed or once you've woken up the next morning, sit down with your notebook, bullet journal, whatever you want. Write the date down and then write down at least one good moment about that day. Whether it was going to an awesome concert or just having a nice phone call to catch up with a friend, or even just having a nice smoothie or sleeping in. Even if your day was terrible, find something in it that was positive about it. Sometimes it can be hard, but looking back, I can assure you, that it makes the day seem a lot less dull than you thought it was. Personally, I prefer short little bullet points, but you can obviously do it however you like.

And if you're as lazy as me and can barely keep a journal for a full week, this is also a great  opportunity to keep some sort of track of the things that you did. So far, this is working much better for me than writing in journals. I don't think I've ever managed to journal for a full 20 days in a row. Who knows, it could work for you too.

Try it. Change it. Don't try it. Let me know what you think. Is there any other way you try and see the positive in every day and track it?

Have a wonderful Sunday everyone. ♥


Outfit:
> Blouse: Bershka
> Jeans: GAP
> Boots: ASOS 

Location:
> Redemption Bar in Shoreditch, London

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P.S. Let's ignore my writing and grammar in that picture up there please, I hadn't thought of posting it anywhere when I wrote that so didn't really give grammar too much thought. Oopsie. 

Wednesday, 21 November 2018

THINGS ARE GOING TO HAVE TO CHANGE AROUND HERE



It's that time of the year again where I tell you another excuse as to why I stopped blogging for a while even though I promised to do it differently from now on. Well, I'm tired of doing that. I'm tired of writing excuses. If I don't upload to this blog for multiple weeks or months because I don't feel like sharing so be it. I'm not trying to turn this into a business, and this is my space, so I might as well do what I want with it.

The past few months of my life have been interesting. This whole year has been very interesting and very different to all the years before. I finally left full-time education and am now sat in London, three months into my journey abroad of my gap year. Am I happy? Am I frustrated? I don't really know. I'm not really sure how I'm feeling about a lot of things these days. There's a lot of confusion in my head, a lot of things I'm trying to figure out at the same time, not necessarily in a bad way, but it's just taking time to figure out where I want to go in my life, what I want to achieve and who I want to be. As much as I didn't have a "this abroad experience changed my life for the best" moment, I can see that it is changing me and the view that I have on life and a lot of things that come with it. 2018 has been a year of a lot of tears and confusion, but also of growth, which I am really thankful for, even though it can be very frustrating at times. Things have not being going as perfectly as I wished for, but somehow I'm still making progress personally. I'm still learning a lot about myself and I'm learning to be much more independent, which is beautiful.

I am not sure where I will be in two months time, who I will be and what I will be doing, but I know that eventually I am going to make the right decisions for myself, even though right now it all feels like nothing is going anywhere and I'm going to get stuck in another rud. I'm a firm believer in the saying that everything happens for a reason, and every decision you make is eventually the right one for you. Every decision we take turns into a lesson for ourselves. It can be a positive or a negative one, but eventually, either of them are there to help us grow and shape us into the people who we are meant and want to be.

Last night I watched this amazing documentary on Netflix about Tony Robbins. Interestingly, although he has been doing this job for a long time, I had never actually heard of him. And it was so fascinating to hear his thoughts and very motivating. I often have a very hard time applying words like his to my life for the long-run, but I feel like it's worth giving a try. If you feel like you are stuck in your life right now, or if you just generally need some motivation and inspiration to pick your life back up, I really recommend you to watch his documentary.

I don't really know what this post is about to be honest, but then I guess that's what my type of update posts are usually like. I'm just trying to get some thoughts down.

I think this blog is going to have a lot less "planned" content on it from now on maybe, and a lot more about thinking processes and things that are on my mind. Maybe. Maybe not. We shall see. We shall see how often I will even post, but I guess this is it for now. I'm still trying to figure out my spot in the blogging sphere.


- 21 - 11 - 2018 -

Thursday, 5 July 2018

WORK EXPERIENCE ABROAD: The Big Adventure - Why, Where & How You Do It

Last year I spent four weeks abroad near Brighton, England, doing work experience at a company that focuses on school trip tourism. During these four weeks I did not only manage to learn a lot about that job and what working in a country that speaks a different language is like, but I also got to know a culture that I have adored for years a lot better, live in a country that I have always been interested in, meet new people, find more confidence both in speaking and working and whilst doing that explore many new places and have the time of my life. I've found work experience abroad to really be a blessing for myself and my future, and whether you are here because you are already planning an internship abroad or are just interested in it, I hope this blog post is going to help you in some way. There are many things to consider, but there are also many reasons why doing work experience abroad is an amazing thing one can do in their life.


WHY

Work experience is something that is crucial for your future, particularly if you are younger and not yet qualified in a certain job field. In Germany, it is common to do a few work experiences during your school time - three in my case. It helps you broaden your knowledge and understanding of the job world and at the same time help you in finding out what you would like to do in the future. Doing work experience where you live is a good thing, and you should definitely make use of that, but if that's not enough for you, or if you want to try something different and challenge yourself even further - a work experience abroad might be for you. 

When I found out that my school would give me the chance to do my work experience abroad, if I wanted to, I think I might have screamed a little because I got so exited. Especially if you are interested in other cultures, other countries, travelling and/or languages, doing work experience in a different country is definitely the way to go.

Although, I definitely want to mention, that you do NOT have to speak a language well in order to do work experience in a certain country. The thought behind giving people the chance to work abroad for a while, is not only to gain work experience, but also, to be able to improve your language skills.

And on the other hand - even if you already speak that language perfectly fine, you should definitely still keep in mind all the other great opportunities that come with doing work experience abroad. You get to know a job in a different country, which might have different ways of doing things than in your own country and will possibly be faced with new challenges. You will be able to get to know a different culture and explore a whole new area during your stay. You will meet new people, learn many new things and have the time of your life, all whilst working. It will also help you become more independent, particularly if you still live at home in your own country.


WHERE

This is obviously a personal choice, but there are some aspects you should consider, when choosing where to do your work experience. First one would be language. As I said, speaking a language perfectly well is not what you should base your country of choice on, but in order to be able to work in a different country, you need to at least have basic knowledge of the language.

In general, take into consideration, that the better your language skills are, the more challenging and "difficult" jobs you will be able to get. If you are going somewhere to better your language skills, working as a waiter in a restaurant might work perfectly fine for you, but if your focus is on the actual work experience in a "more skilled" job, i.e. in the tourism or business sector, then you are better off choosing a country which's language you are more aware and in power of.

A different aspect one should put into consideration, is money. Work experience abroad itself isn't very cheap, so choose wisely, depending on your financial situation. For example, doing work experience in Australia will be much more expensive for you if you live in Europe, than doing it in England for example, particularly because of flight prices etc. But obviously if that's what you want to do, that is totally your choice.

Go somewhere, where you are both interested in and somewhere that will help you most at achieving what you are expecting from this work experience. I personally chose England. Not because I particularly wanted to improve my language skills, but mainly because I am really interested in the country, culture and its people, as well as always being interested to see whether I would be able to work in an English speaking company. Choose what feels right for you. It makes no sense going somewhere that you don't like or don't have any interest in whatsoever. 


 HOW

Now, there are two ways of doing this. Either, you go and contact companies yourself, or you decide to pay an organisation to do it for you. Both has it's pros and cons.

Pros of doing it all yourself are definitely that you have much more of a choice as in where you want to work, and if you have any contacts, you can make use of that. And you also save the money that you will otherwise pay to a company to help you with finding your spot. But the cons are definitely that you have to do a lot more admin work, and it will possibly take you longer to find a company that will want to work with you, as they might not usually choose people from abroad for their work experience spots. If you don't have a place to stay where you are going, you will also have to find a hotel, a room or a host family yourself. If you are fine with all of that, definitely go for it.

The pros of choosing an organisation to help you with finding work experience are definitely that you have to do a lot less work yourself in trying to find a spot, which can take off a lot of pressure. They will also be able to help you find a work experience spot that is perfect for the level of your language skills, as well as considering your own interests in what field you want to work in. They can also help you finding a host family or a hotel for your stay. The cons however are, that you will also have to pay the organisation a certain amount of money for their work, and you also might get a little less choice in where you are going to be able to work (i.e. you will get a list of 10 or so different job fields that you can choose to work in, which might not always cover your interests). 

Another tip I can definitely give you, is to do a lot of googling. Find out about other people's experiences and what organisations they went with. If you decide to do it all yourself, start by deciding on what cities and jobs you are looking for, look out for companies that cover these fields and start contacting them about whether they would be willing to offer you a spot for work experience, should they approve of your CV. If you decide to go with an organisation however, go on google and find out about all the different organisations that offer to help you with work experience in the country of your choice. Compare them, price, performance and interest wise, and also - find out about fairs and conferences in your area. Where I live there a student exchange fair happening every few months or so, where many companies are invited, covering every field from work experience, to Au Pair and language courses or High School Years Abroad. It can be a great help chatting to the people in person that organise these work experiences, and might help you answer the questions you might have. Even if you don't want to choose an organisation, and do it all yourself, this might be helpful, as they might be able to give you some tips. 

In the end, you will have to choose which way will be the right one for you. I personally went with an organisation. If you want to find out what I thought of that, and what my personal experiences during the general work experience where, I am going to be uploading a blogpost on that very soon, and link this HERE, as soon as it is available.

DON'T FORGET

As fun as it sounds to go abroad for a while and explore somewhere new whilst also gaining work experience, there are some things you must consider.

Money is definitely a factor that could possibly limit a lot of people from doing this. However, if that's the case for you, don't give up straight away. There are always ways of making it work. Making compromises and possibly working to gain some more money for the trip can turn things around easily. Work experience abroad is an expensive thing to do, but it can be so fulfilling and you might have the time of your life. It can and very likely will be absolutely worth it to work your butt off in order to make this trip possible.

When calculating the cost of your trip, take into consideration that you will have to pay for flights or trains to get there and get back home, possibly pay an organisation, pay a host family, hotel or room for the length of your stay, and also that you will have all sorts of expenses for food, transport to work and around where you live, possible trips to explore the area and anything else that you might want to buy whilst there.

Also, don't forget to get a travel insurance for the duration of your stay, just in case anything happens to you, because otherwise any accident might become really expensive for you afterwards. 

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So, what do you think? Are you ready to take on the world of working abroad? What are you thinking? If you have any thoughts or possible questions you might want to share, feel free to do so below or give me a shout via e-mail! :)

Love, Jacqueline Xx

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"We live in a wonderful world that is full of beauty, charm and adventure. 
There is no end to the adventures we can have if we only we 
seek them with our eyes open."

- Unknown